WHAT WORK IS
We stand in the rain in a long line
waiting at Ford Highland Park. For work.
You know what work is--if you're
old enough to read this you know what
work is, although you may not do it.
Forget you. This is about waiting,
shifting from one foot to another.
Feeling the light rain falling like mist
into your hair, blurring your vision
until you think you see your own brother
ahead of you, maybe ten places.
You rub your glasses with your fingers,
and of course it's someone else's brother,
narrower across the shoulders than
yours but with the same sad slouch, the grin
that does not hide the stubbornness,
the sad refusal to give in to
rain, to the hours wasted waiting,
to the knowledge that somewhere ahead
a man is waiting who will say, "No,
we're not hiring today," for any
reason he wants. You love your brother,
now suddenly you can hardly stand
the love flooding you for your brother,
who's not beside you or behind or
ahead because he's home trying to
sleep off a miserable night shift
at Cadillac so he can get up
before noon to study his German.
Works eight hours a night so he can sing
Wagner, the opera you hate most,
the worst music ever invented.
How long has it been since you told him
you loved him, held his wide shoulders,
opened your eyes wide and said those words,
and maybe kissed his cheek? You've never
done something so simple, so obvious,
not because you're too young or too dumb,
not because you're jealous or even mean
or incapable of crying in
the presence of another man, no,
just because you don't know what work is.
by Philip Levine, US Poet Laureate
Everyone knows that he/she has to create an economic life. As the attack
in our nation upon community and caring grows even more successful and
vehement, we hear the words of Philip Levine. Words about waiting and
brotherly love. About the squandering of our heart beats and
about alienation and the misuse of power. He slices through the mist
and fog with the vision of the possibility of comradeship and
brotherly love, if only we can get up the nerve to reach out and speak
and embrace the other.
You can listen to Levine speak this poem by going to:
http://www.ibiblio.org/ipa/poems/levine/what_work_is.php
I have two main purposes in developing this blog. I am a psychotherapist and am trying to reach out to folks who want to solve problems in real ways. Thinking together and feeling together with a person who cares can make all the difference in the world. . I also want to provide a place for discussing ideas about some of the ways our minds work, which I think can help people work on the struggles in their lives
THERAPY
Some of the goals of therapy
To find ways to love and accept love
How to stop getting stuck in feeling bad about yourself
To create a fuller and happier life
To find ways out of helplessness and the feelings of being overwhelmed
To find a way out of the unnecessary pains, sadness, and losses in our lives